What should I prioritize when choosing my bridal hairstylist?

Choosing the perfect bridal hairstylist for your wedding is an important step. As we can agree, your satisfaction and the success of your look partly rest on their shoulders! Would you tend to choose based on their skills or personality? Is one of these aspects more valuable than the other? Should both be present in order to make the right choice?

These are very good questions that deserve some attention, so let’s imagine two scenarios.

Scenario 1, Emma.

Emma is the woman who has carried the vision of her wedding since she was very little. She knows exactly the style of dress and accessories she will wear. She is also decided on the hairstyle she would like to have: an elegant low bun.

Just months away from the biggest day of her life, Emma is actively searching for a bridal hairstylist who will bring her vision to life. With a mental image of her hairstyle, she has a head start in her search. Google, Instagram, Pinterest—all these platforms aid her in finding the hairstyle she’s imagined for years. She’s certain that if she finds the hairstyle, the hairstyle will guide her to the hairstylist. She’s seeking skill.

Scenario 2, Elizabeth.

Last year, when Stan proposed to Elizabeth, she was so surprised! Family and friends were present during that unforgettable evening. The joy and happiness of the guests had made a mark on her. These emotions have always been at the center of her relationships, and she is grateful for that.

The wedding preparations are going well. Elizabeth is now looking for a hairstylist. She lets her intuition and sensitivity guide her, knowing that the chemistry between a bride-to-be and her hairstylist is essential for creating perfect harmony. On Instagram, she finally finds a bridal hairstylist whose work interests her. Upon closer examination of the stylist’s profile, she discovers the personality of the hairstylist through reels that the latter has posted. She’s smitten. It was indeed the personality of the person who would do her hair on her big day that attracted Elizabeth more.

Are you more like Emma or like Elyzabeth?

In my opinion, the important thing is to know yourself. For some, what matters is the result. So, not clicking with the Bridal Hairstylist is not a problem as long as the hairstyle turns out well. For others, it’s the process that leads to the result that has more value. Having a good conversation and a laugh with the bridal hairstylist relaxes the atmosphere. It also contributes to the success of the hairstyling service.

My opinion as a Bridal Hairstylist

I fundamentally believe that there needs to be a minimum of chemistry between the bride and the bridal hairstylist. That ensures good communication where both feel listened to, understood, and respected. I remember an exchange I had with a future bride where I didn’t appreciate the tone with which she was speaking to me. At the end of the exchange, I kindly asked her to find another bridal hairstylist. Why? Because for me, the connection is important. Moreover, I would have had difficulty performing my work to the usual 100% simply because of this incompatibility between her and me.

I conclude by recommending you to make the best choice for yourself. The best are the comments from brides who have found a bridal hairstylist who has both great skill and a great personality. Their complicity was even captured in beautiful photos taken by the photographer. That’s what I wish for you!

Take care of yourself and promise me to have fun on your big day!

Phyllis